Cinch It, Snatch It 

So if you know me, then you know that I am very big on snatching that waist!

I personally believe that women ought to look like absolute perfect. This is not just for single women, but for married women as well. Often times when we get into a relationship we lose ourselves. We forget that we did things like snatching our waist for a date and putting make up and things on that we should still do this when we are married. Now if you are looking for your mate, then Hunny – SNATCH THAT WAIST!!! We all have parts of our body that we absolutely dislike but doesn’t necessarily mean that the world has to see our flaws. Clothes fit better when u wear the proper undergarments. And this is not just for more thicker ladies either, smaller females can also benefit from waist cinchers as well.

Now please do not twist my words, I am in no way saying that u have to wear a waist cinched to get a man! U do what u do, but I am saying, PUT ON THE PROPER UNDERGARMENTS!!!!!!!!! 

Here are a few of my favorites. There are many more items that are great but, u just have to find what works for you…

Hanes Shapers
Nike Pro Shorts

Hey Loves!

It’s been a minute but finally I am back!!!!

I haven’t been able to post in a while because so much has been going on. My hard drive in my laptop died so I had to purchase a new hard drive, install it, have memory installed and a new iOS. Crazy right.  Continue reading “Hey Loves!”


Hey loves! 

So yesterday my coworker and I found this cute little candy spot in Manhattan. It’s on the corner of 83rd and Madison Avenue. They have a great selection of candy that are boxed in these cute acrylic boxes. 

I purchased the Baby Champagne Bears. They don’t actually taste like Champagne. I was told that they are boiled in Champagne. 

They have plenty of other ‘infused’ candies as well as regular candies. They’re not expensive at all. 

Our experience there was amazing. They answer any questions you have. The gentleman that assisted us also gave us the history of the business. He did tell us that the website has more of a candy selection than the actual site. So don’t hesitate, go visit SugarFina 

Train Chronicles… 

There are just some things and some people that I don’t think I will ever understand in life. 

So, I’m on the train headed to work. Have my music on, playing word game on my phone and it’s a quiet commute to work. Sitting in a four seater on train near the door. I am sitting on the second seat from the door. On the right of me is a healthy young lady, to the left of me is an empty seat and a guy who has his legs wide open in front of that empty Continue reading “Train Chronicles… “

Pastor Shirley Caesar…

Just a few short minutes ago Pastor Shirley Caesar received her star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame with

She couldn’t kneel like they wanted her to but she did dance on her star!

Well deserving…. Continue reading “Pastor Shirley Caesar…”

Jaclyn Hill Palette…

So, if you are a makeup guru, this is a must have in your collection! 

Now I must admit, I was very excited about this when Jaclyn Hill first announced it and then the buzz about this died down rather quickly. It definitely killed my enthusiasm for this particular palette. However, when I went into Sephora and saw this beautiful palette, I promise you I heard the angels singing!!!  Continue reading “Jaclyn Hill Palette…”

And We Love Pearls…

A pearl is a hard object produced within the soft tissue of a living shelled mollusk. Just like the shell of a clam, a pearl is composed of calcium carbonate in minute crystalline form, which has been deposited in concentric layers. The ideal pearl is perfectly round and smooth, but many other shapes occur. The finest quality natural pearls have been highly valued as gemstones and objects of beauty for many centuries. Because of this, pearl has become a metaphor for something rare, fine, admirable and valuable.

Pearls are found at the bottom of the sea. Divers go up to 125 feet deep in the sea to find pearl oysters, and these deep dives are extremely hazardous to the divers. When a pearl is found, it takes the right person to open its shell and uncover the beautiful gem that lies within.  Continue reading “And We Love Pearls…”


You taught my heart the definition of love…

What I love most about you could never be captured in a photo. I love your character. Not just the roles you’ve played to become you, but the roles you’ve refused because they devalued your potential to become better. I love that you don’t just say you’ll be there, but show up without even saying a word. I love the way you shift the world to make it a more comfortable one for me to live. I love your heart for humanity and your constant strive towards divinity. Continue reading “Love”

Ms. Virginia McLaurin

Hey Luvs,

So this post is totally different from my norm but I have become extremely obsessed with this Ms. Virginia McLaurin ever since she went to visit our President and First Lady at the White House.

Her history and her story is amazing. To know that someone who was raised on a sharecropper to me is amazing. To hear how they had to obtain an education – the very education that we take for granted so often – to me is Awesome

I did not write this article but I found it to be very interesting and thought I’d share it.

“Virginia McLaurin, the 107-year-old woman whose dance with the Obama’s went viral, has finally received a photo ID card. On Tuesday, Washington, D.C. Mayor Muriel E. Bowser passed a new law that would make it easier for individuals over 70 to obtain an ID, the Houston Chronicle reports.

Continue reading “Ms. Virginia McLaurin”