Hey Loves!

It’s been a minute but finally I am back!!!!

I haven’t been able to post in a while because so much has been going on. My hard drive in my laptop died so I had to purchase a new hard drive, install it, have memory installed and a new iOS. Crazy right.  Continue reading “Hey Loves!”

Train Chronicles… 

There are just some things and some people that I don’t think I will ever understand in life. 

So, I’m on the train headed to work. Have my music on, playing word game on my phone and it’s a quiet commute to work. Sitting in a four seater on train near the door. I am sitting on the second seat from the door. On the right of me is a healthy young lady, to the left of me is an empty seat and a guy who has his legs wide open in front of that empty Continue reading “Train Chronicles… “

Pastor Shirley Caesar…

Just a few short minutes ago Pastor Shirley Caesar received her star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame with

She couldn’t kneel like they wanted her to but she did dance on her star!

Well deserving…. Continue reading “Pastor Shirley Caesar…”


You taught my heart the definition of love…

What I love most about you could never be captured in a photo. I love your character. Not just the roles you’ve played to become you, but the roles you’ve refused because they devalued your potential to become better. I love that you don’t just say you’ll be there, but show up without even saying a word. I love the way you shift the world to make it a more comfortable one for me to live. I love your heart for humanity and your constant strive towards divinity. Continue reading “Love”

Ms. Virginia McLaurin

Hey Luvs,

So this post is totally different from my norm but I have become extremely obsessed with this Ms. Virginia McLaurin ever since she went to visit our President and First Lady at the White House.

Her history and her story is amazing. To know that someone who was raised on a sharecropper to me is amazing. To hear how they had to obtain an education – the very education that we take for granted so often – to me is Awesome

I did not write this article but I found it to be very interesting and thought I’d share it.

“Virginia McLaurin, the 107-year-old woman whose dance with the Obama’s went viral, has finally received a photo ID card. On Tuesday, Washington, D.C. Mayor Muriel E. Bowser passed a new law that would make it easier for individuals over 70 to obtain an ID, the Houston Chronicle reports.

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Be You…

Hey Luvs,

So fortunate for me, I have been placed in a position where I have quite a few young ladies that reach out to me often for several things – whether it be just to talk, for advice or even a listening ear. So the other day I was on the phone with some one and she asked “how come you always end out calls with ‘always remember to be you’?”My response to her was simply because no one can ever beat you at being you. No one can do a better job at being you than you.  Continue reading “Be You…”

Me Time

When you live a busy life sometimes you find yourself at the bottom of the to-do list and often times you never make it to the bottom of the list.

I’ve learned along the way that those little moments of me time are very necessary in every marriage. If your schedule is anything like my husband and I, you find that you do a lot of passing one another. As soon as we got married, we started a church – and if any of you ever started a church, you know that it’s like immediately going into labor and trying to birth out a baby but instead we are birthing out a church. So we have a church, we work two different shifts and we are constantly supporting EVERYBODY. But even with doing all of that, one would think that we don’t spend enough time with one another right? But even with doing all of this, you still need your me time. No matter how long or how short your time is, YOU NEED IT. Continue reading “Me Time”

I’m Back, Let’s Catch Up

Hey Luv’s!!!

I know, I know – it’s like where have I been right? Well I have definitely had quite a bit going on. But lets play catch up for a minute. So I totally missed valentines day with you and I didn’t get to share my goodies. My husband spoiled me like CRAZY!

So the week of Valentine’s day, I got a new wedding band. So most of you know I have been married now for a year and a half but because when we first got married we had just moved I didn’t get the band that he wanted to get me. Then when we did our ceremony, my band took a back seat to make sure that we had everything that we needed to make our day great. So my husband surprised me at work with my new band. how dope is that, and can I say that I LOVE IT. Continue reading “I’m Back, Let’s Catch Up”

Facebook Pic…

I think this picture itself speaks a thousand words!

I actually took this picture from Facebook because it sends such a powerful message. We live in a day where it seems to be so common that our young men are ending up on the streets, selling drug, working in McDonald’s, becoming teen fathers and not taking care of their children or just doing absolutely nothing with their lives. And because these things are so common among our young men that it leaves the stigma on all of our men that they are all doing the very same thing.  Continue reading “Facebook Pic…”

Lord Benjamin &Lady Bella

So everyone knows that I absolutely love my doggy baby Lord Benjamin. I got him as a Hannukah gift from my husband in 2014. He is a maltipoo and I have had him since he was 6 weeks old. He’s very much to himself and always up under me. Believe it or not, I never in my life held a dog until I got Benji (that’s what we call him). I have been wanting a female dog for him for quite some time. We thought we had one until we found out that the seller was pretty much playing so my hubby found me another dog. Continue reading “Lord Benjamin &Lady Bella”