Be You…

Hey Luvs,

So fortunate for me, I have been placed in a position where I have quite a few young ladies that reach out to me often for several things – whether it be just to talk, for advice or even a listening ear. So the other day I was on the phone with some one and she asked “how come you always end out calls with ‘always remember to be you’?”My response to her was simply because no one can ever beat you at being you. No one can do a better job at being you than you.  Continue reading “Be You…”

Me Time

When you live a busy life sometimes you find yourself at the bottom of the to-do list and often times you never make it to the bottom of the list.

I’ve learned along the way that those little moments of me time are very necessary in every marriage. If your schedule is anything like my husband and I, you find that you do a lot of passing one another. As soon as we got married, we started a church – and if any of you ever started a church, you know that it’s like immediately going into labor and trying to birth out a baby but instead we are birthing out a church. So we have a church, we work two different shifts and we are constantly supporting EVERYBODY. But even with doing all of that, one would think that we don’t spend enough time with one another right? But even with doing all of this, you still need your me time. No matter how long or how short your time is, YOU NEED IT. Continue reading “Me Time”

I’m Back, Let’s Catch Up

Hey Luv’s!!!

I know, I know – it’s like where have I been right? Well I have definitely had quite a bit going on. But lets play catch up for a minute. So I totally missed valentines day with you and I didn’t get to share my goodies. My husband spoiled me like CRAZY!

So the week of Valentine’s day, I got a new wedding band. So most of you know I have been married now for a year and a half but because when we first got married we had just moved I didn’t get the band that he wanted to get me. Then when we did our ceremony, my band took a back seat to make sure that we had everything that we needed to make our day great. So my husband surprised me at work with my new band. how dope is that, and can I say that I LOVE IT. Continue reading “I’m Back, Let’s Catch Up”

Facebook Pic…

I think this picture itself speaks a thousand words!

I actually took this picture from Facebook because it sends such a powerful message. We live in a day where it seems to be so common that our young men are ending up on the streets, selling drug, working in McDonald’s, becoming teen fathers and not taking care of their children or just doing absolutely nothing with their lives. And because these things are so common among our young men that it leaves the stigma on all of our men that they are all doing the very same thing.  Continue reading “Facebook Pic…”

Lord Benjamin &Lady Bella

So everyone knows that I absolutely love my doggy baby Lord Benjamin. I got him as a Hannukah gift from my husband in 2014. He is a maltipoo and I have had him since he was 6 weeks old. He’s very much to himself and always up under me. Believe it or not, I never in my life held a dog until I got Benji (that’s what we call him). I have been wanting a female dog for him for quite some time. We thought we had one until we found out that the seller was pretty much playing so my hubby found me another dog. Continue reading “Lord Benjamin &Lady Bella”

Celebration of Gospel 2016

Last Sunday Celebration of Gospel came on and it’s something that I watch faithfully every year. But this year, I kind of liked it all the more for a few reasons – they allowed the artist to extend their songs a bit more, they incorporated secular artist who have a love for God into the show and also I think the artist style was just different.  Continue reading “Celebration of Gospel 2016”

Superbowl 50

OMGosh!!! I know I am not the only one that was loving the halftime performance this year. I never watch the game but I always catch the halftime performances and I must say this one was DOPE!!!!!! You know it was dope when my husband loved it.

I have never really been a fan of Cold Play although my sister tells me all the time to download their stuff and I must say, I am so happy I have Apple iMusic because I will definitely be downloading some of their stuff between tonight and tomorrow.  Continue reading “Superbowl 50”

Who Are You Becoming

Ever looked yourself in the mirror and asked yourself, Who Am I Becoming?

I sat and actually had to think and realized that if I told someone the foolishness that I have done in my life you might – no you will look at me differently. You might say that in no way could she be married today, in no way could she be a First Lady in church, in no way could she be a mentor to young women. But the reality is that I am her and she was me.

Very early on I had a plan for my life. Didn’t really care what God’s plan was but I had a plan. My plan was to marry young, have children, live in a house and be set for life financially. So when my plan wasn’t going according to plan, I felt as if I failed. But I had to realize that my failed plan was God’s plan succeeding. I had to realize that HIS plan is much bigger than the plan that I had for myself. Continue reading “Who Are You Becoming”

New YouTube Video

Hey luvs! 

I know I have been saying for a little while now that I was going to do a new YouTube video. It’s taken me some time but I did it tonight, edited and posted it. I am going to try my best to be more consistent with posting. 

Take a look at the video and don’t forget to LIKE & SUBSCRIBE! 

Xo